As channeled, regarding love, helping to redirect this dimension’s inclination to see loving another in light of “possessing them” in order to “have their love:”
- “It is LESS about wanting to possess someone. (In the incarnate world, we should think less about our desires to possess someone/someone’s love as our main driving force behind wanting the love.)
- It is MORE about wanting to give myself/yourself entirely to someone. (Eliminating the ego of self that seeks to possess the other as our main driving force behind wanting the love.)
But the other (person/soul) also has to do it (the giving), because otherwise that person/soul is doing “possessing of” as they accept the other one giving themselves entirely.
Ego serves purpose; it is not bad. Ego and its reduction are paired with growth. The innate and intense desire to be merged – blissfully merged as one, with a loss of self – propels us forward. Recognition and management of this process to healthful conclusion is the art, the unique art that occurs between souls.
Very, very, very difficult to achieve (at high levels of purity) when incarnate. This is something that is done at higher levels (when rising to higher levels) in spirit, but is work to do there as well. But regardless of dimension, it is still the same desire, the same natural pull to want to do. It is directionally the SAME.”